Should you have a first look on your wedding day? This question is a common one I get a lot from my couples when booking their wedding day with me. It’s a huge decision, and I completely understand the reasons for wanting to do both options. Some couples love the traditional moment of the bride walking down the aisle, leaving the groom stunning and emotional with all the friends and family to witness; it’s truly a beautiful moment. However, first looks at weddings have been on the rise and have become a growing trend, and I’ve seen firsthand just how magical they can be. Here are some reasons you should have one on your wedding day.

What is a First Look at a Wedding?

Before we discuss all the reasons you might want to include a first look, let’s quickly define it. A first look is a quiet, private moment before the ceremony where you and your parents see each other for the first time away from all the guests and wedding pressures. Okay, so if you’re considering having one, here are some benefits that might sway your decision.

A Private Moment Together

A first look is a chance to take a breather and just have a quiet, beautiful moment together away from all the guests and pressures of the day. When you see each other for the first time, with no one there looking at you, it creates a moment for you to laugh, cry, and just be together and savor the magic of the day together. It’s a chance to connect and just be together. Whether nervous or excited for the rest of the day, this pocket of time allows you to be. It’s becoming common now to exchange private vows, letters, and other little elements before the ceremony, adding that little bit of romance and love before all eyes are on you both.

First Look Wedding Ideas:

• Choose a picturesque outdoor location for your first look at wedding photos.
• Incorporate meaningful elements, such as reading letters to each other or exchanging small gifts.
• Capture your partner’s authentic reaction with a reveal setup—it’s perfect for unforgettable photos.

Easing Nerves and Enjoying the Moment

Seeing each other during a first look can significantly ease wedding day nerves. Many couples find that having a first-look wedding helps them feel more relaxed and present during the ceremony. It’s a chance to calm your nerves and share a private moment of excitement together.

After your first look, you’ll feel more connected, composed, and ready to enjoy the ceremony and reception. Couples often say it makes their wedding day flow more smoothly and less stressful. It can feel like during your wedding day that you barely get a chance to share those moments; start your day off with someone who can help love at the forefront of your day.

Example First Look Wedding Day Timeline:

• 1:00 PM: Hair and makeup finished
• 1:30 PM: First look with your partner
• 2:00 PM: Couple’s photos
• 2:30 PM: Bridal party photos
• 3:30 PM: Family portraits
• 4:30 PM: Ceremony

Creating a Memorable Experience

A first look is incredible to include in your day if it fits who you are as a couple. It adds another layer of meaning to your day and gives you and your partner a small window of time just for you both. However, a first look might not be for everyone. You also might want to put a twist on your first look, which can be just as beautiful and meaningful or funny and humorous.

Other First Look Ideas:

• First Look with Dad: Share a heartfelt moment with your father before the ceremony.
• First Look with Mom: Give your mom a special memory to treasure.
• First Look with Best Friend: Celebrate with the person who’s been by your side through everything.
• First Look with Daughter: Create a touching moment with your child before you say “I do.”
• I’ve even seen some with the groom and the best man in a wedding dress. These are for those who like a touch of humor in their day.

Pros and Cons of a First Look Wedding

Pros:

• A private, intimate moment to connect with your partner.
• Reduces stress and wedding day jitters.
• Allows for more flexible and relaxed timelines.
• Captures genuine emotions for stunning photos.

Cons:

• Breaks away from tradition if you’re set on seeing each other for the first time at the ceremony.
• It may require starting your day earlier to fit in photos before the ceremony.

Should You Do a First Look?

Absolutely—if it fits you and what you want from your day! A first-look wedding isn’t for everyone, but if you love the idea of sharing a private moment and easing nerves, it’s a fantastic choice.

Portfolio: First Looks in the PNW

The Pacific Northwest offers incredible backdrops for your first-look wedding photos. As a wedding photographer located in the PNW, I wanted to share with you some first looks I’ve captured. Maybe they will inspire you, especially if you are in the PNW area.

Wedding First Look Ideas

Looking for creative ways to incorporate a one into your wedding? Here are some ideas:

• Blindfolded Reveal: Build anticipation by having one partner blindfolded for the big reveal.
• Letter Exchange: Read heartfelt letters to each other before turning around to see eachother.
• Group First Look: Include your bridal party or family in a group reaction, a chance to connect with your loved one.

By including a first look on your wedding day, you can add an extra level of intimacy, intentionality, and love throughout your day. It can also be a connection and important moment with a family member or a great opportunity to have a good giggle.

As your photographer, I’m here to capture every emotion and detail beautifully. Ready to plan your perfect first-look wedding? Let’s make it happen!